I wish I was...

I WISH I WAS LIKE THIS CHARACTER. I WISH I WENT TO HOGWARTS. IF ONLY I HAD FRIENDS AND LIFE LIKE SHOWN IN F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

I don’t know about others but when I watch a movie or series I often think this is the character or role I would like to play or be. But when you actually think about that character or the quality or the trait you want in your life , it doesn’t come easy to the charecters. They have eventually lost something somewhere or something happens along the way that they became like that. So do I want that? For example I wish I was as clever as Hermione in the HP series. But do I want that I have to keep my real self hidden from my parents because I am muggle? Do I want to hear constantly be reminded of being muggle? Do I want to be in constant pressure to prove myself over and over, yet that struggle in the common eyes lead you to be known as miss know it all?! Do I want to face a day when my parents won’t remember me? Definitely no. But why? Why do we want to like someone else or have someone else’s life? Again for example Hermione’s cleverness. Why that. I mean she is pretty and there is so much more to her other than her cleverness . So why cleverness? Is it because I am not clever in real life? No , I may not be that clever but I am definitely not lacking in that area. So when I think about why …. It is because Hermione great start of her friendship began with her using her cleverness. The people who mattered admired her promptness. Because in the beginning phase the trio won’t be complete without her cleverness. So it was not the cleverness that I wanted , it was what came with it. We crave that feeling because somewhere that is lacking or missing in our lives. So next time you watch a movie and find a character intriguing or want to be like it someone then do think about WHY. Maybe knowing so can help you work for it and bring about that change you want in your life.